WHO NEEDS THE MARRIAGE MORE; MOST - 2

Not everything done by a man on a woman deserve to be called hetero. It's the divine union where nether zones interact, strictly, with each other only. Nothing else is allowed an access over there.

It's possible only under the Marital Dome as the partners, especially the woman, can dare be unarmed, off-guard, at her most vulnerable self, raw and receptive, only in marriage. Vulnerability is Strength; Normal is Best. In any case, one can not fake these virtues on oneself. 

Why should men care about that? They better do for their own good.

• First is Worst, in fact first few are all in vain yet, that's inevitable. In any couple, the firsts are bound to prove only an investment without returns in the hope of a better future. Some opportunist males can't get it. It's only after the couple is accustomed to walk on each other's footprints that they achieve the milestone. When I say this, I realized that the Holy marriage ritual in Hindu marriage system includes the bride and the groom circumambulate the Holy fire seven times. Symbolically, the bride follows the groom for four circumambulations and it completes with the groom following bride for three circumambulations. Learning to follow each other, in every aspect.
• No fear/apprehension of losing one's partner for this reason as they know that anything better than what they provide each other doesn't exist, except without as much vain efforts. Why would one willingly commit the sin of stealing sugar granules after one has savoured the incomparable Rasgulla.
• Could any woman ever be able to allow the futility? Impossible. It's possible only under the Marital Dome where the age-old preaching and teachings have conditioned her for never to put the very thought of pleasure on her list of priorities; not even at the bottom of it. Only a 'Wife'  owns such endurance otherwise, women have no reason to have  such enormous 'patience'  and play guinea pig with a fake; smile. Howsoever hard a woman may try and pretend, she can never deceive her own inner self on this front; they are helpless, they are made so by Nature.
• No need felt to check her social media contents, no insecurity/jealousy watching her laughing with another male, no desire to closet her or keep any kind of check on her.  Isn't it an issue today? 

NO GAY CAN EVER IMAGINE THAT THOUGH, MOST OF THEM MAY BE CAPABLE OF.


Nature can never be deceived, and whenever it is shortchanged, it replies in its' own unique manner. 

TO BE CONTINUED...